Porn has been around forever and will likely remain that way. However, men whose first sexual experiences are through porn have to be totally retrained for female consumption. While watching porn before 'making love' (an oxymoron when used thus) with a real woman, they have some very funny ideas about both sexes. Sadly, they get very confused about what it is to be male. Ejaculating in your partner's face is not only demeaning but I have not any women outside of my mental health practice (or even in it, for that matter) who think the guy is macho or who can't turn him off fast enough.
Many older people use soft porn to save time in foreplay. Neither gender is sure that their endurance will last, especially males who are frequently on erection inhibiting medications. Physical causes may be: diabetes, hardening of the arteries, which can lead to high blood pressure, angina or poor circulation (blood pressure lowering medication can make an erection impossible for some), kidney disorders, multiple sclerosis or other neurological diseases, high cholesterol, side effects of prescribed drugs, heavy smoking, alcoholism and drug abuse, prostate problems, clinical depression, pelvic surgery. and more
Psychological problems such as stress, boredom, and low sexual self-esteem, among others may also be causes which may affect with one partner but not another. Adultery is often a first attempt to diagnose the problem before seeking other resources.
Since so little is publicly supportive of masturbation, specialty shops which sell products are seen as shameful by many and frowned on by religions who are still stuck on Onanism. For an excellent article on hardcore porn and its current effect on young people, click here.
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Excellent article. Really, being around a lot of men (through my sailing), "porn sex" is new standard for the entire 40-and-under set. I am tempted to post that on my FB but imagine it would raise some eyebrows.
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